I’ve been MIA for a while.  With all the moving, unpacking, and new job, its been crazy.  Thankfully, things have calmed down.  My new job is “aight” for lack of a better term.  I’m in the orientation phase and the transition isn’t going as smoothly as I’d hoped.  You get used to doing things a certain way, and when you don’t have that, you pretty much have new-job blues. But, i’m sure in time it will get better.  Other than that my personal life is looking up.  New guy (i have to find a suitable alias for him) is proving to be quite a guy.  He’s very thoughtful and considerate. Maybe i haven’t had a really nice guy in my corner for a while, i forgot just what a nice feeling it is to be with someone who really digz you. I am all smiles.  All. The. Time.   I keep waiting for the shoe to fall off, but it hasn’t (yet! and maybe it won’t!).  So, for now, i’m in a really really good place.   I even took a moment to thank EL because if he hadn’t been such a mofo, I wouldn’t have recognized what a good guy looks like.  I think i just learnt my lesson!